What defines lesbian intimate partner violence (IPV)?

The defining characteristic of lesbian intimate partner violence (IPV) is the pattern of violent or coercive behaviors utilized to control an intimate partner. This definition encompasses various forms of abuse, including physical, emotional, psychological, and financial violence, which may be aimed at establishing dominance or power over a partner within the relationship. Recognizing IPV in this light is essential for understanding the complexities of abusive dynamics within same-sex couples and addressing the unique challenges they may face.

Mutual conflict, often misconstrued as a form of "normal" relationship disagreements, does not capture the essence of abuse, which involves one partner exercising control over the other through coercive tactics. Similarly, resolving disputes through discussions or agreements does not align with the fundamental characteristics of IPV, which are deeply rooted in power imbalances. Additionally, a consensual arrangement implies mutual agreement without coercion, which contradicts the nature of IPV, where one partner's actions lead to domination rather than shared consent. Understanding IPV through this lens is crucial for providing appropriate support and interventions within the context of lesbian relationships.